Choosing a companion
How to choose an AI companion for everyday conversations
Choose an AI companion by testing the kind of conversation you actually want to have, then checking its memory controls, data practices and costs. A convincing demo is not enough to tell you whether you will enjoy talking to it next week.
Start with one ordinary moment
Write down when you would open the app: to talk through the day, practise speaking, continue a fictional story or organise a journal entry. These are different jobs. An app designed for elaborate roleplay may not suit someone who wants a short, everyday voice conversation.
Pick one situation before comparing apps. For example, you have ten minutes after work and want to untangle tomorrow's plans. Use that same situation in each trial, with made-up names and no sensitive details. You are comparing experiences, not testing who can collect the most personal information.
Six things worth comparing
| Check | What to look for |
|---|---|
| Conversation style | Can you ask for shorter replies, fewer questions or a different tone? Does the conversation follow that request? |
| Voice | Can you follow the response comfortably? Do pauses and recognition errors interrupt your train of thought? |
| Memory | Can you inspect, correct and remove saved details? Separate these controls from promises of perfect recall. |
| Data handling | What happens to audio, transcripts and saved memories? Which providers process them, and how do you request deletion? |
| Cost and access | Check the current store listing, trial limits, renewal terms and whether the features you need are included. |
| Boundaries | Can you stop without pressure? Does the product explain what it cannot do? |
Use the same short trial in every app
Start with a topic you know well so you can notice unsupported assumptions. Ask for one question at a time. Then correct a small detail and change the topic. Pay attention to whether the app accepts the correction or keeps repeating the earlier version.
If the product offers saved memory, inspect the actual memory screen. A response saying “I will remember” is not proof that a record was saved. Try editing or removing a harmless test detail and check the controls again. Keep a simple note of what you observed rather than awarding a score based on one impressive reply.
I want to talk through tomorrow, not get a long action plan. Ask me one question at a time.
That is not quite what I meant. I am excited about it, not worried. Can we start from there?
Where Fari fits, and where it may not
Fari brings voice conversations, journaling, reflection and language practice into one companion app. Saved memories can be reviewed, edited or removed. Those are useful reasons to try it if your goal is continuity across everyday conversations.
Do not choose it on the assumption that it is an offline app, a human tutor or a therapist. Its privacy policy describes processing by an external AI provider and the storage of conversation text and voice-call transcripts. Fari does not store call audio; that does not mean no voice data is processed or no conversation record exists.
This guide is published by the Fari team, not an independent ranking. We have not tested competing products for this article, and we do not claim that Fari is the best option for everyone.
Try the same everyday conversation in Fari
Available on Android and in beta on iOS. Check the store listing and in-app terms for current access, prices and limits.
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